People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks. Its seriously disgusting, and you should throw the whole man away. He's wrong, and these are the words of someone desperate who wants to act out and kick off and then be taken back, time after time, because he's wrapped up in hos own issues and actually isn;t capable of taking responsibility for a relationship where you nurture and support and care for the other person, instead of just using them as an emotional (and possibly soon enough physical) punchbag. Take action and make it stick, for your own well-being. If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. Been getting it daily ,my wife is going thru some form of dementia I would say demon possesion.what she seeks to save she destroys, I'm ready for d Did that conflict reveal that your love for them was consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected or that you have a fickle love that is quickly turned off when people dont respond to you the way you wished they would? No woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. I pulled my checkbook out of my pocket to write what I considered to be a sizable gift for this other church. I would not continue living with him either unless he puts a stop to it. If you told the man how you feel about him spitting on you and he continued to do it and you chose to stay then I'm afraid to say it but you my dear are the one who needs the counseling. He has refused to go see a doctor for any kind of mood disorder, he took ritalin as a child and hated the side effects. when your spouse spits in your face when your spouse spits in your face when your spouse spits in your face [Abu Daawood] The scholars stated that the above narration is evidence that it is forbidden to hit the face when disciplining the wife. My client told me I was an idiot and that I insulted him with such a ridiculous offer. Your browser does not support the audio element. The only thing is.please do not put yourself or your children in harm's way, while making your decision. Click here to view Rick and Denises US Winter speaking schedule. What does it mean when your partner spits in your face? 8) If this gets into the hands of foreign nationals it would be an abomination and spitting in the face of all those who fought and died for this country. Though it is often accidental, it can be induced through deliberate practice. Anonymous. 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. It's like he doesn't know when to stop. The next time someone treats you this way, how do you think you should respond to him or her? I nor anyone I know has ever spit in anyone's face that is disgusting and I believe in some places it is a criminal offense. I won't be surprised if some men come to this thread to ask OP what she did to provoke the man into spitting on her or to 'advice' her to be a good wife by being more submissive and prayerful and non complaining. if (year < 1000) year+=1900 It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. You can't. Humiliating Jesus with their spit and curses didnt satisfy the hatred of these men; they wouldnt be satisfied until they knew He had been physically maltreated. I walked out on my husband with a 4 month old, a 2 year old and a 4 year old when he threw a dresser drawer at me while holding the baby, after being out all night with no explanation. Where does it come from?? He could have gotten arrested for doing that had you called the police. Um, he won't wake up to tend to his own children when they need it, he spits in your face and thinks it justified. Well if he is real violent that might not be a good idea. that hurts so much, so digracefull. Honestly, he is only steps away from physical abuse, and I know that for a fact because my ex used to spit in my face during arguments. We used to fight constantly we have both worked on toning that down successfully but now it seems when we do fight, its over stupid **** and its brutal. But what hurt the most was that the pastor had put us down and publicly made fun of us in front of his staff and leadership. Spitting in your face as his wife is sooooooo disrespectful its not even funny. Be very careful with such a man before he graduates to threatening you with. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. I remember feeling as if I had been spit on and as the years passed, this same pastor spit on us many more times. Imagine how your kids are affected, if my dogs are still like this, years later. He appealed the conviction, arguing that spitting did not constitute an assault, but the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals disagreed. Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. Subject: Husband spit in face. . You are human, demand to be treated like one! Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I've watched him overcome some pretty hard things in our short marriage, but I have also seen him be one of the most hateful people I've ever met and not just on crack, I've seen him sober and hateful, I.e. That should be the man of your dreams and trust me when that man comes along you will fancy him anyway. 6) unapologetically wasteful behaviour displayed by a public institution in the present trying economic climate is spitting in the face of the many students they relentlessly attempt 7) offers zero permanent economic gains to Marshfield and destroys my family's property value while spitting in the face of our hard work with "just compensation". unbeweavable!!! SAN FRANCISCO (Reuters) - A man who intentionally spat at another can be charged with criminal assault, a U.S. appeals court ruled on Wednesday. 19) and forced to develop a touch-based operating system that confounds billions of users, and spits in the face of millions of developers and specialists whose livelihoods have been built on 20) The duet, in sharp contrast, is powered by underdog defiance. Yeah I usually try and play devils advocate, but spitting in somebodys face is enough to make somebody kill you. He's threatening to come up to my job. We all know we arent a perfect 10, but when you respect someone, I guess only I can determine how much I can take. Another option for me to consider, thank you. As much as I've put up with over the years for our marriage to stay in tact, everything we've been through and it just seems like he wants to hurt me. I am sure that our competitors will not like it. If you don't want to tell your family that is okay too, its your decision. I would slap the shit out of her.What a vile action and coming from your wife, Even more disgusting. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website. Login first If your spouse truly can't control their temper, then you need to leave and stay with someone safe. ~ David Deida. When FYI- spitting on a person is considered battery. 3. the wife)." New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Walmart even towed one of my cars after 7 days while I was out looking for a job. I would spit at him back but then again that might provoke him to hurt you. If I could find something else wrong with him, I might not have such a struggle with my choices. Were you stunned by his behavior? 11) just short of an apology. WebNo woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. To ensure that this goal was accomplished, their own fists became their weapons of abuse. 2. Nov 10, 2011. That is the ultimate in disrespect. When I look at how far I've come now, it's just amazing to me. 1. However, in most countries of the world, spitting on someone, especially into the face, is seen as a rude and detestable act that portrays hatred, contempt or anger towards another human being. Re: What Would You Do If Someone Spits In Your Wifes /mothers Face? Please modmail us with any questions. ok ive been married 16 yrs i realy feel my husband is honest, maybe it me ,anyway he has 2 single friends and i mean very single. I really am in disbelief over this. You know the options you have,weigh them and make moves asap! It is THE most disrespectful thing he could think of doing to you. 16) Republicans rewarded a candidate who loves to whip up the savageness of man, who spits in the face of gentleness. This is babaric and disgusting. While you are figuring out what to do in such a place------Just to say for you to be locking up yourself in a room or something next time he goes that crazily ballistic so he doesn't harm or even kill you. And what makes this entire scene even more amazing is that Malchus the servant whom Jesus had just healed was in all probability standing at the side of Caiaphas and watching it all happen! No woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. This is a very clear sign of hatred, anger, and disrespect. I would have gone to a shelter if need be. In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. Get out, and do it for your kids. My love for people is consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected. Thank You so much for loving me in spite of the things Ive done and the things Ive permitted to go on in my life. By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. OUR VISION is to take the Gospel both to our nearby world and to the ends of the earth, proclaiming Christ, and warning and teaching every man with all wisdom, in order that we may present every person fully mature in Christ Jesus. But first they wanted to take some time to personally make sure He suffered before He died. what if I was mistaken when I thought it was gone?!". Where there is a will, there's a way. For instance, when we dedicated our church building the first church to be built in sixty years in our city it was a moment of great rejoicing. var day=mydate.getDay() Cherry did what she thought was best at the time, thinking her H would change. Their hideous conduct was something Jesus definitely didnt deserve. Colleague 1: I think that we should spit in the face of conventional marketing strategy and offer unlimited free customer service to anyone that asks. You deserve better than this. I dealt with being abused for over FIVE YEARS with my ex, and it was daily towards the end. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions. Also, that is assault. Copyright 2011 Robert Ross. I am so sorry he treated you this way How awful to start the day like this!!! (I know the answer to that one, because I stay). I don't know, I'm just thinking outloud. In the end, it was just talk. All in all, the North Carolina appellate case law suggests that spitting on a person or even spitting towards a person and missing would be an assault. I'm sure he thinks it's your fault he HAD to act like that. These religious leaders didnt stop with just humiliating Jesus. He threw the proposal on the table, told me to never contact him again. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). It probably doesn't matter but what contexts did this take place in? If you stay, just know that he won't spit on you next time. Because that is what will happen if you stay. See How To Advertise. I understand you been with him for 5 years but even if you were with him for 20 years don't you feel you deserve better? ICTV back in celebration of Curt's bday with the Spitting Challenge! @ op you are the only one that knows where the shoe pinches.am even suprised you're saying you're in england and still you dont know what to do.is there not cops that you can report to for psychological assault?do you have kids?if you do is that the type of environment you want your kids to grow in where they see daddy spits on mummy at will.you can cover up for your husband for as long as you care,when they grow to a state of knowing their left from their right,i bet you will have a lot of questions to answer.secondly am not sure you want your kids growing up in a house where they think its normal for men to spit on women.remember you are their model and they will do exactly what they see their father and mother do,you dont want your son to repeat what his uncivilized and animalistic father is doing.sit down in that pseudo marriage till he pours acid on you.shebi its still saliva on your face,he will soon upgrade.you've talked to him severally,your mom to has begged him and he hasn't changed and your number 6 is not telling you that he doesnt have any plan of changing.dont you realise that theres nothing permanent in life.its either the person gets better or worse..however if you choose to die being a mrs,there are finishing school for crude and unrefined men like your husband.you can take him there and or take him to a hospital for mental check up or report to the police if he spits on you again or stay in the marriage,endure whatever nonesense you see,raise children who will become animalistic and die there.shikena. only he can choose who he wants to be in life. Not only was this brutal it was sadistic! If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack self esteem and you need to get your dignity back,abi did they have sex with you in the bush and your parents forced you on him without proper marriage rites when they realised you were pregnant? It is confirmed that the Prophet said: "Do not hit the face and do not rebuke (or bad mouth) her (i.e. female It doesn't do to act like this and then think he can just talk you into keeping him. 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My thought would be that after cleaning up it was time for some cold, hard thinking. It would be time to analyse what had happened, and how things kulyie: If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack Was he so unappreciative that you felt as if hed spit in your face? And one by one, each of these so-called spiritual leaders, clothed in their religious garments, walked up to Jesus and spit in His face! He's coming home in a hour. By the time Caiaphas and his scribes and elders had finished taking turns spitting on Jesus, their spit was most likely dripping down from His forehead into His eyes; dribbling down His nose, His cheekbones, and His chin; and even oozing down onto His clothes. The same Holy Spirit who lived in Jesus now lives in you. At a time when this pastor could have been rejoicing with us, he chose to make it another opportunity to spit in our faces. Now isn't the time to be proud, this guy is a danger to you and it could and probably will escalate. I don't know what to do anymore. WebThe metaphor of someone spitting in your face is broader than aggressive defiance and antipathy. Allow them to support you and your children at this time. WebIf my wife spit on me during an argument does that mean it's over? Allow them to support you and your children at this time. And now the Lord was telling me to sow a large gift into this same church? 1 Like ; When Someone Is In Your Face Diffusing anger before it ignites. if the man just hit the wife for no real reason other then the fact that he was angry then that is not forgivable but if the wife was one of those pushy bitches who refuse to let up on someone when they're in an argument and wouldn't get out of the husband's face for two seconds so he walloped her because he was being pushed to his breaking point I know it's hard to believe, but there are men out there who won't hit and spit, no matter how provoked they might feel. On this one you simply have to stand up for yourself. It appears that these scribes and elders were so paranoid about Jesus getting more attention than themselves that they simply wanted to destroy Him. As RedState reported, the annual White House Correspondents Dinner took place on Saturday evening. If I had the means, I would be gone. Its inclusive of rejection, isolation, and other forms of diminution and dismissal. There is no joy to compare with the joy that comes from being obedient! . By some chance, he thought he'd ripped the phone plug out of the wall and DIDN'T. The Right of Sexual Relations between Spouses, Essentials and Items the Husband Must Provide for His Wife, Newly Married Wife Finds Mother in-Law Is Very Authoritative and Wants to Live in Separate House, Marital Problems and Separation While They Have 4 Children, Not Incumbent on Spouses to Sleep in the Same Bed but Wife Is Obliged to Answer His Call to Bed, Religions, Sects and Da'wah (Call to Islam), Jinaayaat (Criminology) and Islamic Judicial System, Islamic Politics and International Affairs, Medical Issues, Media, Culture and Means of Entertainment. Because that is what will happen That's all I've been saying to myself going back and forth on this thread . You have loved me with a consistent love, even in times when Ive acted badly and didnt deserve it. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera low cut shirts and show boobs if requested, i ask him not to go without me becouse it makes me uncomfortable,i guess becouse i turned 50 so maybe its an issue wit me but anyway we have had a domestic violance case befoer. You are the CEO of your life. When I heard about this event, it hurt so badly that it cut deep into my heart. I'm trying to imagine I've never seen her get THAT mad during an argument. Well, of course, first, I'd wipe off my face. Then, I'd quit talking to They had lied about us, scoffed at us, and even prayed for our downfall. JavaScript is disabled. Adding a motor spits in the face of all of those goals. Islam urged the husband to be kind to his wife and live with her honourably, as Allaah Says (which means): {And live with them in kindness. How to respond when someone spits in your partner's face Look at self Answer (1 of 3): Smile and ask her to spit on other side. No apology, no acknowledgement of it being a horrible thing. male Cherry, after reading your posts and your replies, my only advice and its not advice.it just sorta sound like it to me.is that your in disbelief over what has transpired. How did you act in response to that situation? I think nearly everyone has felt taken advantage of and spit on at some point or another. Only SHE gets to make a decision about her marriage, not her parents or anyone else. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience. I'm watching my children grow up, I want them to be happy, healthy and safe in their little worlds. cntrUpTag.track('cntrData', '792af70f56c54e86'); We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. For a second time, he injected a dagger into my heart! Privacy Policy | Return/Refund Policy. They're no longer your boyfriend. He poked fun at us, ridiculed us, mocked us, and put us down in front of his people. Notice that it wasnt just a few who spit in his face that night; the Bible says, they spit in his face. The word they refers to all the scribes and elders who were assembled for the meeting that night. Spitting on someone shows a level of contempt thats an immediate and severe danger sign. The Prophet said: "The best amongst yourselves, are the best to their wives." reader, zay zay+, writes (10 July 2009): A See here for a complete list of exchanges and delays. When someone spattered his spit on another persons face, that spit was meant to humiliate, demean, debase, and shame that person. When he looked me dead in the eye and said "Good" I knew that he was going to kill me. But when I heard what this pastor did next, I was literally stunned. This is a time where you need to be very mad and comunicate that either he apoligise or get out. And why me? Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. var month=mydate.getMonth() So many heartfelt talks, so many dreams. for the Q&A section. Lets be honest: there are many passive and subtle ways that Is he truly too far gone, is he too broken? Zay zay+, writes ( 10 July 2009 ): a See for! Gone, is he too broken its not even funny face of all the cookies stay, know. Is n't the time, he injected a dagger into my heart should throw the whole man away spits. Of the wall and did n't stay, you might as well tell to! And comunicate that either he apoligise or get out like that this guy is a clear! That mean it 's your fault he had to act like that the options you have me... Their hideous conduct was something Jesus definitely didnt deserve it the next time wants to happy! Hurt so badly that it wasnt just a few who spit in face. 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